Anonymous asked: Hey, it's the anon from yesterday. I talked to my ex about everything. It was a bit emotional, but needed. In short, knowing how I feel makes them not want to be friends. Which is fair enough, I never wanted to cause them any bother. I feel like an ass telling them my feelings, but bottling up the hurt was really doing some serious harm to me. Whatever happens now is for the best I guess. It's sad, and I'll miss them, but people can't help the way they feel. Thanks, again, for the help.
I’ve been in that sort of situation before where they have thought I’ve changed or vise verse, it’s usually always come out in a fit of anger so those weren’t exactly the best examples to give cause of the people involved.
It’s good you’ve talked to them though, I’ve had friends who have had problems with their friends and when I told them just to talk to them things seemed to get better for them. It’s never any good to bottle up feelings, if you hadn’t talked to them about it, your relationship would have been under a lot of strain just from the fact you wouldn’t be entirely comfortable with them!
But I hope you’re okay and things work out for the best, like I said, people change and grow apart and sometimes there is just no way around it but moving on with your own life and remembering the good times you had. xxx